I agree completely ,
The conversation went, are you friends,ans... Yes been friends for 35 years......realised what he was saying added,we both widows.......
Reply well if you were that way inclined ,you would be the butch one......,what you have to ask your self would he have said that to ,two men friends......... I was gobsmacked.
I have forgiven the comments,but it does make you think,who else is forming ideas about you,even before you have been introduced.
The conversation went, are you friends,ans... Yes been friends for 35 years......realised what he was saying added,we both widows.......
Reply well if you were that way inclined ,you would be the butch one......,what you have to ask your self would he have said that to ,two men friends......... I was gobsmacked.
I have forgiven the comments,but it does make you think,who else is forming ideas about you,even before you have been introduced.