Our short-lived dream is over.... (2 Viewers)

[Terry]

Hi Jacky so sorry for your loss --You and your daughters do what you want to do at this time -
I too did not want our M/H when Ann died (it was ours) but after a few months I made my mind up to go to my first rally simply because it was quite local and it beat sitting around the now empty house -Since then I have enjoyed 18 mths with my new found friends -Not saying it will work for you but at this time give things chance to settle down--Wait a while and see what life brings -You and yours have all my sympathy at this tragic/horrid time
terry

 

[Zains Pops]

Words fail me......what a tragedy, thinking of you, stay strong and let your family help you.

 

[Moragm]

Jacky, so sorry to read about the sad loss of your husband. We send our deepest sympathy.
Morag & William

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[Neilfg]

Really sorry to hear your news, our thoughts are with you and your family.

 

[Rob and Val]

Writing this with tears in my eyes. We are so sorry to learn of your husband's death. The only consolation, and not much of one, is that he died doing something that he loved.

 

[dave met]

So sorry to here of your tragic loss

Dave & Lin

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[hilldweller]

He has always been a daredevil...but a sensible one.

52 is no age at all but it sounds as if he lived those 52 years, many get by just existing.

Now it's up to you to do that living he can't, it's what he would want.

 

[bartiny]

Very sorry to read your very sad and tragic news Jacky, our thoughts are with you and your girls.
Very, Very sad.

 

[Wildbill]

our deepest and sincerest sympathies
god bless
bill and family

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[Bridget]

Dear Jacky, I was so shocked and saddened to read your post so can't begin to imagine how devastated you must feel at the loss of your beloved husband. I totally understand you not wanting to look at the motorhome on your drive - perhaps someone could move it for now?

Sincerest condolences to you and your family
Bridget x

 

[Poohbear]

So sorry to hear of your loss Jacky. Being a biker myself we are always very aware of our vulnerability but without our biking we wouldn't be the people we are. Having lost both my parents I have learned that it is best not to make too many quick decisions because as time passes we may regret those quick decisions we make at the time and wish we had waited until things had settled down. At first you don't want or need reminders but later on you welcome those things that remind you of particular memories. Like someone else said, maybe you should put the motorhome on hold for now and leave that decision for sometime in the future. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

 

[barsteward]

Gutted for you Jacky

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[gus-lopez]

Sincerest condolences to you & your daughters.

 

[Floydster]

So sorry to hear this.
Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Paul & Jax

 

[Derbyshire wanderer]

So sorry to hear of this tragic news. I like others cannot find the right words but do hope that you find the strength for you and your daughters to get through this.

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[Jill]

So very sad. There are no words.
Love to you all.
Jill xx

 

[chaser]

Feel its all been said, but think the same as the others,makes all the other threads seem very unimportant, not far from Cannock either, so could help also if any needed.

 

[Teuchter]

So very sorry for your loss

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[Bailey58]

What a sad post to have to write on Fun and you must be admired for doing so in such a difficult time. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

 

[Badknee]

Oh no! I'm so sorry to read this thread. I lost my first wife of 21yrs aged 39 in a car accident and took a long time to come to terms with it. You have the time and take as long as you need, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time.

 

[johnp10]

So sorry to ear of your loss, Jacky.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
You will be amazed at the amount of support you will get from Funsters.

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[John.]

So so sorry to read this.

Nothing I can say that's not already been said.

John & Diane.

 

[Ambilkate]

We are so so sorry Jacky our hearts and our thoughts are with you and your girls we are in Shrewsbury which is not far from Cannock if we can help in any way please let us know xxx

 

[Mack100]

Very sorry to hear this, my deepest sympathies to you and your family.

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[TheTwoOfUs]

There's very little that we can say that will ease your pain but please know that we are all thinking of you and your family.

 

[big bertha]

Don't know what to say, my heart goes out to you all, stay strong.

 

[froghopper43]

My sincere thoughts are with you. I really am so so sorry.I am holding your hand . just don't feel alone. Your motor family are all near.

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[Freespirit1]

Deepest sympathy and condolences Jacky and daughters - Chris & Elaine.

 

[scousebird]

So sorry to hear your sad news. Best wishes to you and your family.

 

[Hel999]

so so tragic. My heart goes out to you. By writing this you have reached out to us and we are all here for you. Like others have said, the important thing is getting yourself and your children through the next few weeks, leave other decisions for a while until you can see a way through. Getting rid of the MH wont take away the pain - there will be many more reminders around you of your hopes and dreams and you wont be able to get rid of all of them. One day, they may become bitter sweet rather than just painful memories and you may find you and your daughters want to do the things that you wanted to do as a couple, in his memory and to keep his dreams alive. Big hugs xx

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