camperlove
Free Member
yes it does and to answer others posts regarding her relationship. I have heard that he has been unfaithful twice of which she knows of, has caught him watching porn, he does physically abuse her. She however only hinted to me such things. Its apparently common knowledge at church. HOWEVER, after careful consideration, I decided to mostly mind my own business and stay clear of this matter.But this sort of relationship "evolves" over a long time and becomes a bit like Pavlova's dog sort of indoctrination that is beyond correction so far down the line.
All I said was, if she wanted to go into sheltered housing I would assist her. She didn't know what sheltered housing was.
I did not push the matter BECAUSE she might be lonely by herself, and might be placed away from her church friends. She might be financially worse off, being used to him paying the household bills. I don't want to be blamed for anything which might end her marriage, and have the church frown at me. There are several elderly ladies in the same position.
Its bad enough teaching one drive, now another wants computer lessons, another wants her finances looked at and try claim PIP , im still trying to finish off what i started with the other lady. Im not going down the relationship route.....most in the church will land up single and divorced, and ill be kicked out.!!!!!