I was happily married for years then we separated and I became a single dad. Kids grew up and I started getting out more but spending time mainly with friends and their wives. I decided to jump in at the deep end I joined a couple of free sites and started to meet a few which grew into a few more and some more, It was all beginning to become a bit of a chore. Anyway I put another add in the local rag which had a huge response, then one Wednesday night I had arranged to meet someone who had promised to cook me a meal, I knocked on her door and that was it hook line and sinker. She was 6' with long red hair and ten years younger than me, I couldn't get enough of her she was and still is one of the best things that has happened to me. We have been together now for some years and even my ex wife has moved in with us, they get on really well and the kids also love her to bits. Aim for the stars and you could be lucky but the chances are it might not happen over night...Good luck.