christinekontiki
Free Member
We have recently told our various assorted kids and kinfolk of our plans to up and go in the next 12-18 months and mostly the reaction has been a positive one.
Good for you, wish I'd done it - from my 74 year old dad
Might as well enjoy life while you can - from best friend
Brilliant idea - 26 year old step son
BUT...... my youngest daughter (20) isnt a happy bunny. She is worried that we wont be safe, that we will be away from our families, we are giving up everything we have (jobs, house etc...) we may live to regret it etc etc etc.
I really dont know what to say to her. She feels I am abandoning her. Part of me feels terribly guilty for even considering leaving her, but another part is quite frankly annoyed that she is being so selfish - can t she see this is something we have thought about long and hard and now the decision is made, we just want to get on with it?
Any advice on how to deal with it, and make the next few months bearable.
She doesnt live with us either so its not as if we are chucking her out on the street !!!
oh:
The rest of the kids are all supportive and think its great, only she is being negative and I just dont know what to do
Good for you, wish I'd done it - from my 74 year old dad
Might as well enjoy life while you can - from best friend
Brilliant idea - 26 year old step son
BUT...... my youngest daughter (20) isnt a happy bunny. She is worried that we wont be safe, that we will be away from our families, we are giving up everything we have (jobs, house etc...) we may live to regret it etc etc etc.
I really dont know what to say to her. She feels I am abandoning her. Part of me feels terribly guilty for even considering leaving her, but another part is quite frankly annoyed that she is being so selfish - can t she see this is something we have thought about long and hard and now the decision is made, we just want to get on with it?
Any advice on how to deal with it, and make the next few months bearable.
She doesnt live with us either so its not as if we are chucking her out on the street !!!
oh:
The rest of the kids are all supportive and think its great, only she is being negative and I just dont know what to do