Hi everyone,
Reading through this post & getting the general jist of what people have said, this is my view:
We have just purchased our 1st motorhome with the intentions of touring the UK, including the whole of Ireland & clearing off to Spain when the weather gets a bit damp here.
As an HGV Class 1 driver I have seen most of the UK, but my missus hasn't.
So by the end of March - mid April we should be all set & ready to clear off for a trip that could last anything from 1 year to 2 years.
We intend to just go where we fancy & if we like the look of the place we'll stay there for however long we wish then simply move on.
We intend do do as much "wildcamping" as possible.
We have a Kippor 3000w digital generator & are just deciding on what gas system to have fitted. So while were away we can be as self sufficient as possible.
Now to the point of the post:
As a lorry driver I have spent many nights sleeping in my cab either at truckstops, industrial estates, layby's etc etc.
Now I have never ever had any problems & believe that you attract what you send out. That means if your a nuisance, you'll get aggro. If your thoughtful & considerate, you'll get on.
Now as for parking overnight somewhere, many truckstops are well known for having loads robbed, curtains slashed etc. So can be said for some remote locations, fortunately nothing has ever happened to me.
So with my knowledge of looking after yourself (always make sure you can drive off if anything did happen, large metal baseball bat to hand along with piece of scaffolding tube, lol) & with parking where you fancy look at it this way.
If we see somewhere to park up I'll asses the area, then I'll see if I need permission, I'll always ask & be as polite & responsible as possible. I'll always clean up after myself & I'll always be grateful.
When I have been in awkward situations I have even knocked on peoples homes & asked for my flask to be filled with boiling hot water so I could make a drink or if I could use their loo, I have never been refused & have even been invited in to join their family for dinner.
As for being moved on, I have only once been asked by the Police to move my lorry & that was because they thought where I was parked I would be troubled.
I didn't move & I had a peaceful night.
Even though some councils, government authority, private person etc may have the rights to the land there is always an arguable & polite way of not being moved on at that time. Hope you understand the point here.
If you are feeling unwell or unfit to operate a motor vehicle it would be inadvisable for anyone to request you to move. Even a Police officer would be very wary of this as they have to sign a statement or even move the vehicle themselves to a different location, not worth the aggro.
So if you were parked & being wonderfully good etc I feel it would be quite rare to be asked to move on. If you were a nuisance then move on you should & park up overnight in Moss Side (not that I have anything against Moss Side as I have had some great nights out there). Hopefully your following all this, lol,
So in a nutshell I believe that as a person you attract what you send out in the Universe of Life.
As for Parking where you fancy, if you don't do it you'll never know, if you don't ask you'll never get.
Next time your on the road look at all the HGV vehicles, vans etc & see where they park not only to rest, but to get a good nights sleep.
Then consider would you feel safe if you were parked with them.
Anyway I hope you understood the point I made about Parking & I hope I haven't offended anyone in any way.
Best Wishes to you all,