Hi, I think you are a bit to thin skinned to be a member here, no one was lecturing you, and no one would comment on your grammar or spelling. You have had some excellent answers here, and no one deserved your response. Ah, maybe you are Welsh and a rugby fan which would explain while you are so touchy today
Formerly Llangatwg.
Sorry, still trying to get the hang of this. I couldn't log on as Llangatwg so re-registered.
I felt I was being lectured. Replies in other Fora have been more helpful, here I feel as if I have entered into a well-rehearsed argument.
Yes, I am Welsh; no, I am not in the least bit interested in Rugby - not all of us are you know [that is a sweeping generalisation] so I fail to see what is meant by the last sentence.
I am 'tetchy', as I admitted, as I felt I was being lectured at.
This being the case, I shall perhaps continue to look for advice elsewhere.
Thank you for all the positive replies. Of which there were many.